Every day we communicate with others both verbally and non-verbally. Every time we smile at another person, say “Hi” to someone,
carry on a conversation or even purposely ignore someone, we are communicating.
Effective communication is a critical piece of our personal and professional lives. However, most of us rarely take the time to examine carefully just how we communicate and if we could have said it better. We often neglect simple communication tools and techniques despite their simplicity and availability.
Some people take control of conversations in a good way. They are precise and to the point. Getting your point across is important to successful business relationships. However, since good communication can be difficult because of time, patience, and effort it requires many people tend to say more than they should say.
I was interviewing a very qualified woman. On paper she appeared to be exactly what our team was looking for. However, the interview gave my team and I more insight and it was not exactly positive. The purpose of interview questions such as “Tell me a little bit about yourself,” is not an invitation to have a therapy session about your divorce, custody battle, or even your college fun adventures. Sometimes too much information can hurt you. In most of these cases it’s not about what you said, but rather about what you didn’t say.
It is okay to be a man (woman) of few words, just be sure your words are well selected and to the point.
Tips to help you get to the point:
- Be Prepared
- Stay focused on your conversation
- Maintain eye contact with your listeners
- Ensure your listeners understand by asking for questions or feedback
- Avoid becoming over-emotional or letting your temper/anger show
- Be concise and clear when speaking
- Avoid rambling ~ think what is my point
- Speak calmly and avoid raising your voice
- Be honest and tactful
- Be kind, compassionate and empathetic
- Maintain your confidence when speaking and listening
Utilizing these tips will help you to communicate with others in a more concise manner and avoid the get to the point eye roll or sigh.








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